I am not a hater. Really...I'm not. I may dislike people but I do not hate. I learned long ago that hating will only eat a person from the inside out and make life miserable. I've also learned that if you dwell on the garbage people have tossed into your life...you will be just as miserable. I'm still holding onto some garbage that I really, really need to let go of. Yesterday I got a phone call from David, my ex husband, telling me his mom has less than a week left to live. We knew it was coming but when the reality of it hits...you don't want to accept it. I was thinking about how David's mom was robbed of her grandchildren and all because of some vindictive bitch who couldn't accept that David did not want to marry her. God forbid he married me so what does she do? Falsely accuse him of some heinous things and from there it snowballed into where we are now. An older child that wants nothing to do with him and a younger child who will never know her ...