You're too fat You're too thin You're too pretty You're not pretty enough Seriously. These are things that have been said to me by men. Men who have asked me out. Men who have proposed marriage. I want to understand why. Why do these men feel that it is within their rights to say hurtful things to me? It just doesn't make sense. I've become cynical. Extremely cynical when it comes to men, relationships and the dreaded "L" word. Love. What an ugly four letter word that is. LOVE. People don't mean it anymore. It's just another word to throw around. But, say that word and you believe you are given the right to say whatever you feel is okay to the person you just said you love. Whether it is a compliment or verbal abuse. I don't believe in love. I haven't in a very long time. It may work for others and that's great but in my world? Not at all. For me, love means being abused, treat...