"Out of respect for my fiancé, she would not be comfortable with me talking to you and I'm not comfortable with it either" but yet.... BUT YET ....he was okay talking to other women while engaged to me, having online sex while still engaged to me, inviting other women to his band gigs while still engaged to me. This lets me know, without a doubt, he never loved me, he never respected me, and he had zero use for me other than to destroy me as a woman. I was so stupid. So incredibly stupid to think he ever had any feelings for me other than disgust and disdain. When I learn these things, I heal just a bit more. I don't think I'll ever be over his abuse but at least I know...he did not ever have any kind of love for me and that tiny bit of hope I held onto thinking he did at one point in our relationship, is now dead. Another reason why I do not believe in love and will never believe in it. Men abuse and men lie. Before I h...