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Well it was an interesting weekend....to say the least. I will spare you the gory details. Lets just say that God works in ways you will never understand but just accept how things come about.
J and I were in a parade yesterday. Got soaked before it started...seeing how it was raining cats and dogs. The rest of the day was good. Went to a block yard sale in Joey's neighborhood. Joey being a new female friend of mine. Actually it was a couple of blocks. Only icky part about it was I saw my ex mother in law. By the Grace of God...she did not see me. Everytime I see that woman she has to belittle me and try to make me feel an inch high like she did when I was married to her son 14 freaking years ago!!! I wanted to avoid that at all costs. I just wasn't in the mood for it. Wow...did that just freak me out or what? It's been 14 years since I married my first husband. June 21, 1992 was the day we got married. Crap!!!! It doesn't seem like it's been that long!!!
Today was very lazy. Watched movies all day. I showered only because I had to go get K from her dad's house. I barely put on makeup and definately didn't do my hair. I saw no point in that. Don't really need to impress anyone out there. LOL
The girls are heading to a birthday party tomorrow for one of the kids here in the park. It will be a nice thing for them and a short break for me. Not that I really need one. Ok...maybe I do. A friend called me last night inviting me to go out dancing. She had a sitter all set and she was paying. Wouldn't you know it...I was flat out exhausted and didn't go. I don't even know what time I fell asleep but when I woke up at midnight I thought it was around 3am...that tells me I was asleep for quite awhile considering I never get to bed before midnight on most nights.
I did get an email from a wonderful friend of mine today. He is going to be in town next Saturday and asked me if I would like to go out for dinner with him. Well duh...of course!!! I haven't seen him in months. We are due for a get together.
Other than some BS that was happening with J's biological sister who, after lying to me for 5 years and saying she would have a relationship with J sometime in the near future...informed me that J is not family to her. Yes as I'm sure you all know without my saying so...I got pissed about that and flat out told her to never contact my daughter and she is dead to all of us...told you it was ugly....I know Sabrina...you don't have to tell me. But you know from experience how that kid can piss me off and I can't keep my big mouth shut. LOL :)
I'm due for a new pic of my man...but that will have to wait until tomorrow. :)

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