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Well I'm at work today. Still a bit weak but I'm a trooper and I'm here. Besides...I can't afford to take off 2 days in a row. Sucks being a single mom. Mark called this morning and invited me to Barrel Tasting at a couple of the wineries but seeing how I have a test to take tomorrow...yes AGAIN!!!....I won't be having any wine tonight. Bummer. The Barrel Tasting is going on all weekend so I'm not going to be seeing much of Mark. Again....bummer. I have a house to clean this weekend anyway. I suppose I will survive. *sigh* ;) Maybe I will paint my bedroom. How exciting is that???
I'm a bit worried about my kitten, Poto. The poor little thing's eyes haven't even remotely come close to opening. All of the other kittens are open or really close to being open. They are 2 weeks old today. If Poto ends up blind then the name is very appropriate. The Phantom had a deformity/handicap and so would my little kitty. She/he is the sweetest little thing. Loves to have it's tummy scratched/rubbed, will give me kitty kisses and will purr. I'm completely in love with it. :)
Lunch...I really need lunch.

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