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I'm done chasing IP addresses. I have realized it's not worth it anymore. If Kim has no life and needs to maintain some semblance of contact with me...let her. It has become clear to me that she is still reading this but using Laine to get to me. I don't really think Laine visits my blog multiple times a day. LOL
In all honesty...I don't care who reads this anymore. My friends read it to keep up with me and my life. My enemies read it for what they say is "to get a good laugh". I find that difficult to believe. What I believe it is...they are nosy and can't live their own lives without me being part of it. Interesting since they are the ones who ended the friendships to begin with. I must have made some lasting impression on them for them to continually seek me out in whatever way they can.
So...IP chasing is done and IP banning is done. I won't sink to their level anymore and will maintain my dignity and pride. I'm better than they are and I will hold my head high for taking the higher road. :)
Are ya proud of me, Bean? It was an ephiany this morning...LOL

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