Ok...this has been nagging at the back of my mind and I need some input. Here is the scenario: You go out on a date with someone you aren't even sure you wanted to go out with in the first place. Since you hadn't met this person you wanted to give it a chance so you suck it up and go out with them. You meet at Appl*bee's for dinner. It's a pleasant dinner with decent conversation. Let's say your date spends $60 for dinner. Easy to do at the above said restaurant. Your date walks you to your car, pleasantries are exchanged and you say you will talk to him later...which by the way you do but realize the chemistry/attraction is just not there. Now for the question. Because said date spent $60 on dinner for the BOTH of you...are you obligated to go out with them again or take them home with you on the first date? Please help me out with this one.
It's a struggle knowing he didn't love me and never did. To find out the things he does now for his wife? The woman who is bigger than I ever was, the woman who has been married multiple times, the woman who is tatted up and he hated tats, the woman who shows jealousy, the woman he won't keep secrets from but kept them from me, the woman who is everything he said he hated in me. Knowing all of this has made me hate him. I know it does nothing to him. It will only eat away at me but that has been happening to me for almost 20 years. I can only now admit that I hate this man with every fiber of my being. When I met him, I was in a good place. I was happy with myself, I had friends, I loved sex and I believed in love. In the almost 2 years I was with him, he destroyed every last bit of me. I know it was only 2 years but in 2 years, he obliterated every bit of who I was. Not a day went by where he didn't mentally or em...