Ok...this has been nagging at the back of my mind and I need some input. Here is the scenario: You go out on a date with someone you aren't even sure you wanted to go out with in the first place. Since you hadn't met this person you wanted to give it a chance so you suck it up and go out with them. You meet at Appl*bee's for dinner. It's a pleasant dinner with decent conversation. Let's say your date spends $60 for dinner. Easy to do at the above said restaurant. Your date walks you to your car, pleasantries are exchanged and you say you will talk to him later...which by the way you do but realize the chemistry/attraction is just not there. Now for the question. Because said date spent $60 on dinner for the BOTH of you...are you obligated to go out with them again or take them home with you on the first date? Please help me out with this one.
There are days I enjoy living my life. There are days I thoroughly hate it. Yesterday, while grocery shopping, I almost had a breakdown. Standing there in the aisle, I had to fight, with everything in me, to not start crying. Too much has been hitting me this month and I think I'm at the end of my rope. Beginning of the month, D's new wife sent me a text telling me to lose his number, email and address because I already had my chance with him. I laughed at the absurdity of everything she said in that text as it sounded like something a teenaged girl would write. I haven't wanted that man in almost 20 years, so, she is either highly jealous of his past and any woman he used to be interested in or is extremely insecure with herself and her relationship. Regardless of her mental state, I told her I was just catching up on life with him, but I will respect her request and not talk to him again. I've been told she has been married 4...