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Well it's Saturday and you will be happy to know...I passed one portion of my stupid exam. The other 1/2...missed it by one. I am less than pleased but seeing how I am still miserably sick...I did pretty well. Only thing to complain about is having to pay AGAIN to take the stupid thing. Only have to pay $55 this time instead of $70 like the last 2 times. Good grief...it's a good thing I'm getting a raise after this. These stupid allergies are just killing me!!!
I had to cancel my dinner "date" and I was not happy about that. I so wanted to see him. He understood though and hopefully we can get together in a couple of weeks. Life has been quite frankly...boring. LOL I like it. :) No guy problems, no phoney friend problems, no money problems...it's nice.
I did see Troy yesterday. Saw him at Wally World. We chatted for awhile and he said he would call but I know better. He has a tendency to be a recluse and will only call if someone leaves him a message on his machine. It's ok though. I'm sure we will always be good friends. I have no problem with that at all. :) I did give him grief about how cheap he was when we were dating....LOL He fully agreed he was a cheapskate...but then again...we were only 18 years old. Seems like a lifetime ago. Oh wait...it was!!! He is still as cute as ever. ;)

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